Rough Sex Vs Slow Sex

Many people believe that lovemaking has to be as soft and delicate as it appears in romantic movies we see on the big screen. The cuddling, rubbing of feet, and other sensual movements that lead up to seductive lovemaking are what some of us are used to seeing. Lately, the topic of rough sex has been coming up more. While some do like to take it slow when it comes to sex, some like to turn things up a notch.
Why is rough sex becoming more common?

Why People Love Rough Sex

1.    Women like being controlled. Not all women, but some like the fact of a man showing who’s boss in the bedroom. While some women are submissive in nature and enjoy rough sex all of the time, some women like it rough when they want to spice things up in the bedroom. Bondage, Handcuffs, choking, and other acts are all common when it comes to rough sex.

2.    Movies such as 50 Shades Of Grey have made more want to be rough during sex due to the dominant character’s dominance in the popular film. But, don’t be fooled by the novel or film. Men are not the only ones giving out the lashings in the bedroom. Women can be just as dominant in the sack. In fact, many men have reported that they like to switch things up and have their partner dish out the rules and be rough with them during sex.

3.    Some studies show that introducing new things into the bedroom can enhance intimacy. By having one night a week of rough sex, you may find that your sexual relationship has gotten better. Sometimes all it takes is a new attitude in the bedroom to turn your dull sex sessions into a night filled with passion.

4.    People like rough sex because it’s something new to try! It’s kind of like when a new thing hits the media. Everyone wants to try it. For some couples, it actually helps them and makes their relationships stronger. For those who find out rough sex really isn’t their thing, at least you can say you’ve tried it and put forth your energy towards other things.

Introducing Rough Sex

There are many ways to introduce rough sex into your sex routines. You might want to discuss things first with your partner and create a safe word if your partner wants to stop in mid-stroke. You also want to keep an open dialogue after the fact to discuss if you want to move forward with rough sex and make it a permanent part of your sex life.

Do you like it rough, or do you prefer it soft and slow?