Why do Couples use Sex Toys?

 

                                                                                                                              

 

 

 

Why do Couples use Sex Toys?

Many couples don’t use Sex Toys, but surely if you introduce them to your relationship, it will make it more enjoyable and pleasurable.

The popularity of Sex Toys has been on the increase in the past few years. I myself have found my voice and gotten to know my own body through using sex toys. The myth Sex toys are often used by lonely single women who are desperate to find a sexual partner is not true as many couples of all ages are discovering a newfound pleasure within their relationships. Introducing Sex Toys into your regular sexual activities can be an exciting a pleasurable experience as a couple.

Most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation and very rarely orgasm from just vaginal stimulation. This stimulation is hard to come by when you have good old vanilla sex. So I urge every woman out there to get some bullet vibrator! It is one of the first sex toys I owned, and I have had many since a toy box isn’t complete without a good bullet! Using a bullet vibrator whilst having sex can also enhance the male’s sensations too! He will feel your vaginal walls contracting through the orgasm, and it is also likely he will feel the vibes. Placing a bullet vibe on your clit is a great way to introduce sex toys into your usual routine. The Rocks Off 120mm 10 speed bullet is an amazing starter vibe. It has 10-speed functions which I am sure will please most people. It is also waterproof and compact so that it will fit snuggly between entwined bodies.

Now another favourite of mine has to be a good old dildo! You may think it is trying to replace your partner but let me tell you that most men would be open to using a dildo on their partner! Believe it, or not even phallus-shaped dildos are not the be-all and end-all of the dildo world. I find non-phallus shaped dildos dismiss the rumours of dildos replacing penises! Using a dildo can be a very close intimate practice to do with your partner. Losing all control over the dildo and letting your partner use it on you can be somewhat thrilling. The main part of a gay female’s sexual activity can be done using dildos, strap-ons like the Ultimate Twin Strap On Kit and strapless strap-ons like the Infinity Vibrating Strapless Strap-on. Are a firm favourite!
Dildos come in all types of materials; this opens up a whole new world for Temperature play and sensation play with Sex Toys. Glass Sex Toys can be heated and cooled by letting them rest in warm water or cool water 5 minutes before using them. The Icicles Romantic Rose dildo is perfect for couples; you can give it as a gift, or for Valentine’s Day, it is perfect. This dildo is also textured, so you can also use the texture to experiment too. Metal dildos can be a great way to use cool Sex Toys during sensation play. There are many to choose from, but something like the Metal Works Mr Smooth is great for beginners.

Butt Plugs are also a great couples toy; they can be used during sex as they stay in place; for couples starting with anal play, I recommend something small like the Fifty Shades Of Grey Something Forbidden plug. This is no bigger than the average girth of a finger, and the length is ideal for beginners. When engaging in anal play, you need a good quality lube that will be long lasting as the anal cavity is not self-lubricating. Liquid Silk is a great one to use as it you can get the pump bottle which is handy as you will need lots of it! Using lube is essential in anal play, and it doesn’t matter what sex toy your using, be it a dildo or plug. You’re going to need lots of lube to help the insertion and for it to feel comfortable.

Vibrating butt plugs are all together; they offer vibration and stimulation that can be felt through the vaginal wall when having sex; I am sure your partner will feel the vibes through your vagina. Also, vibrating butt Plugs are great for prostate stimulation, and when they are stimulating the prostate, the male’s orgasm will be heightened. Anyone can use the Rocks Off Ass Berry, and there are 7 speeds to choose from!

Bondage is fast becoming a favourite between lovers, with most sex toys used between couples being bondage related items. You can start with the softer side and go for the sex and mischief, whip and tickle. I found this to be a steal. You get two sex toys for the price of one here! Using the feather end to trail along with your partner, giving a tickling feeling will heighten the senses. You may then use the Whip to inflict a sharp sting; the pleasure of the impact will be increased by the sensitivity you just created using the feathers.

Handcuffs are a pretty standard sex toy that they have been used for years, be it the gag fluffy pink ones you find on a hen do’s or the leather kinky type worn by goths. Handcuffs come in all shapes, sizes and design. The Zado Leather Wrist Cuffs Purple are welcoming without being too extreme! The lack of black leather makes it more vanilla and less scary for newbies. If you are on the kinkier side, you may want to try bondage rope which can be used to tie hands together, ankles or tie someone to a bedpost. Spreader bars are also used among the kinkier couple; they help keep legs and arms at a distance but also restrains them, too; if this sounds like what you fancy, The Fetish Fantasy Spread Em Bar and cuff set may be just what you’re longing for!
Sex Furniture may not be the typical sex toy, but it is getting increasingly popular, with Liberator being the most popular choice. You can purchase sexual aids such as ramps and cushions that help support your body whilst having sex. These Ramps can also help sturdy you when doing those exotic, crazy sex positions you often see on sex card games. The Fetish Fantasy Position Ramp is a great alternative to the liberator ramp. It is cheap and does the same job, so even if you have a low budget, Sex Furniture doesn’t have to burn a hole in your pocket.
So there you go, I have just busted the myth of Sex Toys being for single deprived women! Couples enjoy Sex toys too! And using them as a couple, you get to experience new beginnings together, which can create a special bond between any couple.